As
a reflection of how the world has come closer
together, we now very often witness marriages
between people of different nationalities and
upbringing. What is even better to see is the
convergence of and mutual acceptance of each other's
cultures as the couple begin their matrimonial
life together.
Blessings from family
Photo courtesy of Nupts
& Such
The
embracing of the couple's respective cultures
and traditions is particularly evident on the
wedding day itself. Although spectacularly orchestrated
during the wedding, the time and effort put into
the planning required for the smooth-running of
such a special day is undoubtedly daunting to
some. Indeed, the enormity of the occasion is
enhanced even more greatly, when faced with the
necessity of incorporating the traditions and
practices of two distinctly varied cultures.
Whilst
tackling the challenges that wedding planning
presents, do keep the following in mind :
Respect and accept each other's cultural
practices and traditions.
Heed the advice of family elders and relatives.
Be diplomatic and non-confrontational when
dealing with sensitive issues.
Embrace the challenges as learning experiences.
The
photos here depict the wedding of Cambodian-Australian
Ashley Young and Canadian Doogle O'Riley. Held
in the Cambodian capital, Phnom Penh in June 2005,
they enlisted the services of a Malaysian-based
wedding planner who had previously worked in Cambodia
and was therefore acquainted with the industry
service providers there and more importantly familiar
with Khmer culture. An extremely laid-back bride
who placed complete trust in her wedding planner,
Ashley left all the details and organisation tasks
to the expert so to speak. Apparently this was
a wise move as no formal invites are sent out
for a traditional Khmer wedding. Rather, the hosts
would literally invite anyone they meet on the
street. The whole town came for the celebration
as evidenced by these celebratory images.
Khmer 'hantaran' and meeting
the in-laws
Photos courtesy of Nupts
& Such
Tip
: An experienced wedding planner will be able
to assist in bridging the gap between both parties,
particularly when dealing with cultural nuances
of an inter-cultural wedding.
